Dear Single Christian Woman: You Are Not Forgotten
There’s a certain kind of silence that settles in your soul when you’re single for longer than you expected. You have prayed. You have fasted. You have been prayed with and prayed for. You have waited. You’ve tried to “enjoy the season.” Yet deep down, you sometimes wonder, Did God forget about me?
Let me speak to that part of your heart today—the part that feels overlooked, unchosen, unloved, unseen or just plain tired. You are not forgotten. Not by the One who knit you together, numbered your hairs, and wrote your name on the palms of His hands.
The Abba Father.
1. God Sees You Even in the Waiting: Waiting can feel invisible. Like everyone else is moving forward, while you’re stuck in a holding pattern. But God is not blind to your desire, nor is He deaf to your prayers. “You see me,” Hagar said in the wilderness (Genesis 16:13)—and she was a single woman, running away from pain. If God saw her, He sees you.
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2. Singleness Is Not a Punishment: Dear Sister, you’re not single because you’re not spiritual enough or made a mistake. Singleness is not second place.
Some of the most powerful women in the Bible were single in seasons. Mary, Martha, Esther (until marriage came unexpectedly). Your worth isn’t tied to a wedding band.
You are complete in your Singleness. Nothing is wrong with you.
3. Marriage Is Not the Goal, Purpose Is:There is this saying,”Purpose discovery leads to spouse discovery.”
While you are waiting and trusting the LORD God to write your love story, spend time to discover your purpose and life vision, and start living and working on it.
Don’t wait until marriage to live fully. You have gifts, callings, and anointing that don’t require a husband to be activated. This is not the “in-between.” This is your life. Pour into it. Build it. Love it. You’re not preparing for life—you’re living it now.
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4. God Isn’t Late : It’s easy to look at the clock and think God is behind schedule because everyone around you and your body keeps hinting on how your biological clock is ticking and time is no longer on your side .
But He’s not following our timeline. He’s following His perfect plan. “At the right time, I, the Lord, will make it happen” (Isaiah 60:22). Trust that He’s not just working on your future husband—He’s also preparing your heart for the kind of love you prayed for.
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5. You Are Deeply Loved : The enemy wants you to feel unloved. But hear this dear Daughter of Abba. God’s love for you isn’t on hold until marriage.
You are loved today, fully, completely, wildly. Let His love fill every ache. Let His words affirm you when no one else does. Let His presence remind you—you are never alone because you are not.
You are surrounded by His Angels and His Holy Spirit is with you always.
To Single Christian Sisters Still Waiting,
You are not behind.
You are not broken.
You are not forgotten.
You are deeply seen by a God who writes love stories better than any fairy tale. And when He writes yours, it will be worth the wait.
So hold your head high, beautiful daughter of the King. Keep serving, growing, laughing, dreaming. And when love comes, let it find you already Purpose driven ready and full.
God Bless You
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